pain


Random quote of the day:

“You’re crying. You say you’ve burned yourself. But can you think of anyone who’s not hazy with smoke?

—Rumi, The Essential Rumi (tr. Coleman Barks)

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Random quote of the day:

“One wishes that pain weren’t the potent alchemical element that it is.”

—Athol Fugard, interview, The Paris Review, Summer 1989, No. 111

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Random quote of the day: 

“Pain is the most individualizing thing on earth. It is true that it is the great common bond as well but that realization only comes when it is over. To suffer is to be alone; to watch another suffer is to know the barrier that shuts each of us away by himself. Only individuals can suffer and only individuals have a place in tragedy.”

—Edith Hamilton, The Greek Way

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Random quote of the day:

“On the outskirts of every agony sits some observant fellow who points.”

—Virginia Woolf, The Waves

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I’ve been coming to terms with my own physical limitations for the last week. I blew my knee out over the weekend and have had a hard time getting around. I had to borrow my mother’s spare walker, which was a huge blow to my ego, especially bringing it to work. I hate the melodrama of it—but it works better and causes me less pain than using a cane. The knee is progressively getting better. I’m hopeful that if I keep off my feet as much as possible this weekend I can do without the walker on Monday. Still, it feels like a ghostly voice whispering in my ear, “You are getting old.”

The truth is, I’ve been dealing with these physical limitations for awhile now. I’ve known for over a year that I need surgery in both knees. I’ve got no cartilage left at all. But I’ve been limping along because . . . who will take care of Mom when I’m laid up?

The recovery is actually a lot quicker than I thought it would be. My doctor says most people are walking up stairs after a couple of weeks. And I want to be able to walk again! This last week has shown me that the time for procrastination is done. Since there’s no one in the family to help me, I’m just going to have to scrape up the money to hire someone. Fortunately, Mom is still relatively high function. We’re talking about someone to run errands, cook meals, keep her on track with the meds and therapies, take her to doctor’s appointments. I’ve got an ambulance company that can take her to and from dialysis. I just have to let go of my protective need to take care of everything myself.

That, of course, is the hardest thing of all to do.

Random quote of the day:

“The main motive for ‘non-attachment’ is a desire to escape from the pain of living, and above all from love, which, sexual or non-sexual, is hard work.”

—George Orwell, “Reflections of Gandhi”

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Random quote of the day:

 

“Sometimes it is harder to deprive oneself of a pain than of a pleasure.”

—F. Scott Fitzgerald, Tender Is the Night

 

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Random quote of the day:

 

“We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.”

—Kenji Miyazawa

 

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Random quote of the day:

 

“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”

—Daphne Rae, Love Until It Hurts: The Work of Mother Teresa and Her Missionaries of Charity

 

(This quote has been widely misattributed to Mother Teresa herself.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Random quote of the day:

 

“Pain is temporary.  It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place.  If I quit, however, it lasts forever.”

—Lance Armstrong, “Back in the Saddle—An Essay”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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